Caretaker - Alzheimer's

Thank you attorney Rick Law:

In the Ten Absolutes for Caregiver Decision Making, Absolute #6 says: Never Endure, Instead Cry.  As a caregiver, it is okay to cry.  It’s even okay to cry together, so try going to visit your loved one armed with some tissues. Instead of a strong façade, cry on their shoulder like you would have 10 years ago when something awful happened.  If they’re upset as well, I think you will be surprised at how likely your loved one is to stop crying, and comfort you.  We know our loved ones want to help us feel better, and this gives your visits value – he gets to “fix” you by holding and comforting you.  Trust me, it will be healing for both of you.